Benefits Of Having Petty Arguments In A Relationship
An intimate relationship is an interpersonal relationship that involves physical or emotional intimacy. Although an intimate relationship is commonly a sexual relationship, it may also be a non-sexual relationship involving family, friends
Fights and arguments are healthy as long as a few rules are followed and neither of you crosses that line. It is healthy to bicker which is why everyone says that if you are not fighting then something is wrong in your relationship. Sounds absurd?
Here are some reasons that why small arguments are beneficial for married couples.
1) Your opinions aren’t hidden anymore
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Your relationship definitely becomes stronger when you hold back no grudge and instead say it out loud in front of your partner. Even if there are disagreements, there is nothing hidden. You express what you feel and what you think. No one holds a grudge against the other so it becomes a transparent relationship.
2) It can be trust-building
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When we discuss things and argue a little, we are not keeping secrets, therefore the trust remains. However, if in a relationship there are no arguments, there lurk many secrets and therefore both the partners end up doubting each other. However, it is important that the argument is not one-sided. Both should listen to each other’s opinion otherwise it becomes completely unhealthy.
3) After that it feels better
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When we speak what we have in our hearts and mind, we tend to feel better. Even if you both have argued, in the end, it feels good and relaxing. Healthy debates are always good and make sure that you solve your issues before going to bed.
4) Intimacy
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Many experts say that by arguing with each other your intimacy with your partner increases as well. You do end up apologising to each other, making amends. This brings you two closer.
5) It can improvise your character
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After a few fights and arguments, your patience increases for your partner. You may not realize it immediately but now that we have reminded you, you may realize how your care and love for your partner increases over time. Many people even adapt themselves according to the other to avoid unnecessary arguments. But you must make sure that these arguments are not too often and not unpleasant. Do not cross the limit.
And if you feel that the other is crossing the line, simply get up and leave that room. Do not reciprocate as that will simply bring out the worst side of you and you do not want that to happen.
